Fantasy or Real Life?
Which (bisexual / gay) acts do you think about, and which have you done?
There are a lot of straight (or formerly straight) guys out there who have watched f***ed-bi clips, humiliation videos, gay porn, or have fantasized about a bisexual or gay experience. This could be a recent thing, or it could be something that you have been thinking about for a long time. I know that I am not the only one out there who has had these thoughts.
But, which of these bisexual / gay acts have you fantasized about and which of these have you actually done? I’m curious if most guys just fantasize about these things or if they actually follow through with their desires. For example, is it just a dream for you? Have you thought about doing something but did not follow through? I know that I have chickened out on some fantasies at times, but I want to know about other people’s experiences. How many of these acts have you actually done?
There is no judgment here as to whether these acts make you bisexual or gay, this is just a way to see what other people think and have done (let’s leave labels out of this). The list includes a variety of acts, ranging from masturbation with others, kissing, cumming, and anal play. I tried to set it up so that the beginning of the list had some tame actions, in the middle things get a little more wild, and then finally things get even more so with a climax at the end (sorry for that bad joke). Of course, this is not a complete list of acts, but it hits on most of the major activities.
Go through the list below (#’s 1 – 16) and for everything that fits your fantasies, add up the points for a fantasy score (ranging from 0 to 30). For everything that you have actually done, add up the points for a reality score (ranging from 0 to 30).
Share your scores below in the comments section!
SOMEWHAT TAME ACTS
(#1) You masturbated in front of another man +1 point
(#2) You stroked another man’s cock +1 point
(#3) You stroked another man’s cock until he came +1 point
(#4) You received oral sex from another man +1 point
(#5) You kissed another man +1 point
THESE ARE GETTING A LITTLE MORE INTENSE
(#6) You went down on another man (oral sex) +2 points
(#7) Another man sprayed cum on your body (not face or mouth) +2 points
(#8) Another man sprayed cum on your face +2 points
(#9) Another man sprayed cum in your mouth +2 points
(#10) You swallowed cum in your mouth from another man +2 points
(#11) You fingered or played with your ass (using a finger or a dildo) +2 points
(#12) Another man fingered or played with your ass (using a finger or a dildo) +2 points
(#13) You fingered or played with another man’s ass (using a finger or a dildo) +2 points
THESE ACTS ARE TAKING THINGS TO THE NEXT LEVEL
(#14) You were a top during sex with another man (giving anal sex) +3 points
(#15) You were a bottom during sex with another man (received anal sex) +3 points
(#16) At the end of anal sex with another man, he came inside you +3 points
In total, your score could range anywhere from 0 (you have not done any of these things) to 30 (you have done all of these things). Please share your scores in the comments section below.
For those with high scores, provide some tips or encouragement to others for how they can change their fantasies into reality. As I noted earlier, I’m sure that there are a lot of guys out there who have these fantasies, but some are not sure if they want to go through with them. I for one am happy that there are sites like this available where we can all fantasize about what turns us on – I also like the receptive community that tends to be supportive to one another!
As a reminder, for those of you who are acting out your fantasies, always practice safe sex!